I need advice please

I wouldn’t want to play with that Moira anyway tbh. Just let your girlfriend make the decision or just say, hey, play with your friend now, we can play together tomorrow or whatever.

I also have a lot of different people I play ow with, so if you don’t have anyone else to play with, try finding some other people to group with. I’ve met some of my best ow partners just going into team chat and being like ‘hey who wants to group?’ after a good game. It’s always nice to play with different people on occasion.

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My gf says she doesn’t want to get involved in any drama. I just wish her friend liked me. I guess I should just let them do whatever they want and not try to push it. It’s just so damn depressing.

She’s involved the moment she agrees to kick you from the group for her friend instead of “sticking up” for you lol.

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I have a lot of OW friends and when I play with them I always ask if my gf wants to play with us, or if her friend wants to play with us. I guess the friend also has a bunch of Diamond and Masters friends that she plays with sometimes and said quote “My friends would tear you to shreds”.

That is how you can spin it. Rant about how depressed you are in passing and that all you want is for senpai to like you and you just do not understand why she hates you. Tell your girlfriend that you will try better and even use immortality on Karen-Sama so that the team does not die.

Ez clap, bois. All the drama comes from one corner and she starts to discern it for herself.

Is it manipulative, yes. Do you get what you want? Very likely. Now there is some pragmatic advice. Also, yes, I am a Leo too. Rofl.

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Lmao. Thanks for your advice, and to everyone else who’s commented. It really means a lot to me.

Wow what a jerk. And wouldn’t those diamond and master friends tear her to shreds too since she’s also gold?

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No because she’s ‘in’ with them.

I mean like if they did a 1v1, your gf’s friend vs 1 of the diamond/master. And the diamond/master tries their hardest. Gf’s friend would also get smoked too

Dump her. You can get another girlfriend. You’ll never get your self respect back.

It’s actually nice to have a common interest and a favourite game with a S/O. It only gets tricky when one climbs and can’t queue together.

You should tell your gf your situation. Just don’t guilt trip her or make her feel bad, because essentially it’s the friend being unreasonable making those demands.

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Oh um, idk. She’s a pretty good Moira and tells me I should usually get at least 10k healing per round. I kinda see her as a coach. I’ve been trying to hit that 10k ever since.

The criticisms from your gf’s friend and associated disharmony that comes along with them will only continue to intensify. It will get a lot worse than critiques of your Overwatch play. Unless your gf takes convincing measures to tame this antisocial friend of hers, I’d dump her. The company one keeps…

Lol I’m not going to dump my gf. Or are you talking about the friend?

No hate on Moira, but it’s really not that hard to master her. Especially if you’re in gold. Said friend out here acting like a T500 gold support.

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Big talk from someone who’s in the same rank as you lmao. Believe me, she can say it’s your fault she’s losing or that she’s hard stuck in ELO hell or whatever, but if she was that much better than you, she wouldn’t be in gold. She’s the same skill as you, and maybe she’ll realize it if she plays without you.

(Unlikely. In reality, she’ll probably just pick a different reason for lost games, because it definitely can’t be her.)

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If that happens then you can always just throw down to their level or make a new account and throw all placements

I have seen something like this before, and its a case of game before friends which means… the person really isn’t a decent friend.

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if the MMR system were public they wouldn’t worry about losing because they know their MMR penalty would be offset.

just play tons of games and you’ll have an accurate SR, then there’s no reason to worry if you’re not as good as them

Haha my gf has like 4 accounts. Once upon a time my gf was a GM support (But I’m not supposed to tell :P)