Failed to connect

Bad enough I wait 10 minutes to queue, then it says “failed to connect” to server which had happened to me before, but this time puts me on a 10 minute ban. Ban ends so I go to tank queue. Failed to connect again! Now I’m on a 30 minute ban! What kind of garbage is this! PS4. I don’t just quit games.
I’m a level 3589 because I always play! Fix this ban system. Should get a certain level of respect/leeway from these bans after a certain exp level anyway. So it’s going to be probably 50 minutes before I get ONE game in? To possibly fail to connect a third time?