It is a matter of what OP thinks is justified because they said this:
So let’s not act like OP is considering when or when it isn’t their fault and when they should swap. They flat out admit they don’t care and will continue to play DF yet they complain about other people not just playing around them.
OP thinks they are the main character, they aren’t going to swap but complain about people not swapping for them. It’s delusional and let’s not pretend it isn’t or that “sometimes the solution isn’t for him to swap” because it is made clear in the original post that he will continue to play the character no matter the circumstance so bringing circumstances like those into the conversation is irrelevant and pointless.