Also note the part where they say it takes hundreds of reports and the measurements you use. If you want to avoid someone get their fullname from the screen and /w hisusernamehere DONT send a message you dont have to do that then just right click in the chat box and the full menu of chat will show all the lounges you are in and whispers you have active. If you have done this right it will show his name in the whisper category and if you hover it will show his state (in menus , in game, waiting etc…) when he’s in game its safe to queue and he’s someone else’s problem