D4 constant crash. memory issue?

Okay this is getting highly annoying.
specs:
RTX 4070
I5 13600K
32Gb DDR5
Z690 Mobo
all drivers up to date.
exceptions in antivirus.
Steam always runs as admin.

I keep getting a crash, at least once an hour for weeks now. it says the game couldn’t find enough memory. I even have two things open on my second monitor showing ram and vram usage to monitor myself. Every time Vram is at 80% usage and ram has at least 10+Gb left. however, the game constantly gives me “ran out of memory”. I should not have to drop my graphics settings the play the game. I play BG3 on max at 4k and it runs just fine. D4 is nowhere near the level of D4, graphics wise, game wise, or apparently community support wise. It would be nice to see blue post about this, but I’m willing to bet they are too busy doing a scrooge mcduck swim in all the money that they got off us lemmings to worry if the game is playable. Also I have tracked this issue via there “bEfOrE yOu PoSt ReAd ThEsE” and this issues has been seen as far back as 2023 with, of course, no blue posts. can anyone give me some solid input on this error? the blizzard report code is
52C79EE5-72C3-4816-9837-364825FD82AB

My hunch is a memory leak or server issue, and all my hunches point to blizzard. I’d be happy to hear input from anyone who has experienced this and fixed it.

Here’s what I did on Windows 10:

Control Panel > System & Security > System > Advanced System Settings
System Properties window should pop up, go to the Advanced tab, under Performance click Settings button
Performance Options window should pop up, go to the Advanced tab, under Virtual memory click on the Change button

I put a hard limit of 8 Gb on my HDD and created a paging file on my SSD with a system managed size.

I also downloaded Sysinternals’s Process Explorer from a link off of the Microsoft site. Process explorer shows me that the virtual size of D4 starts off at 21 Gb and constantly grows as it runs. It grows about 6 Gb an hour. But it no longer crashes.

Appreciated I am going to try this out.