This is so true and I have spoken about it on my topic:
Basically “streamers” playing “Diablo II communism” where they have “friends” doing them free-labor oh I mean filling their games and finding them items and are like: “Nah, drops are fine”.
I said it, this game is enjoyed mostly by abusers. Personal loot and player x command would solve that and this is why they hate seeing them mentioned so much and turn aggressive with personal insults.
Your feelings are very valid and shared by the vast majority, other than abusers.