Can't start BFA xpac

Hi, I have a Vulpera lvl 70 toon named Foxkitten on Bloodfurnace server. I have searched all over the internet and forum for months and still can’t find a way to start the BFA quest(s) that get the Princess in the capital, nor the King on his throne. Basicly, I’m trying to start the campaign quest that takes me to the Alliance zone(s) and to start the side “follower” table. I’ve tried Chromie, warboards, and everything else suggested online. I’m at a loss.
Please help. Fyi, I do have DF paided installed latest version.