Now that I think of it-- the big hurdle (at least for Alexstrahza) is that she is the LIFE-BINDER. She has MANY consorts. So unless you’re cool with open relationships/ the poly-lifestyle … that’s a huge barrier to overcome.
It’d almost be like dating a adult film star. For some dudes that might sound cool at first. But their whole “whew… had a rough day at the office” conversation will quickly change your perspective. lol