So I told the girl I have been long time close friends with that I liked her today and got a dry response like she doesn’t care… We did arenas, quested, myth progged, exchanged social medias etc basically everything together. I didn’t even know it was possible to like someone you met in a game honestly because I used to laugh at stuff like that. Still… sucks that it’s one sided and don’t know what to do…
Also for the trolls. I tried to find the off topic forum. I couldn’t see it around I hope blizzard didn’t remove it.
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Ok… I’ll bite.
It’s all about confidence man. You want to be her MAN? You have to confront her like a damn MAN. Don’t beat around the bush or mumble. Be a man and tell her what’s up.
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This is the offtopic forum.
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Being rejected sucks big time, but you did the right thing. It’s always better to clear the air than to keep something like that a secret.
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Give it time. Continue to hang out and do the things you like doing together. Baby steps. Having someone come out of nowhere, especially a good friend, saying that they have interest in you on a romantic level can be… a little jarring! People deal with that sort of thing differently.
The worst thing you could do is push too hard.
Who knows! She might like you back in the same way! Just might take her a little longer to be able work up to saying it and be willing to work towards a closer relationship.
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Just don’t be a pathetic creeper, okay? Guys like that are awful. You told her. Okay. Didn’t get the response you wanted. That sucks. Don’t dwell on it. Commit to being a friend only or, if you can’t do that, go away and don’t hang around her.
Guys who mope around and get all passive-aggressive never get the girl. Quite the opposite. Don’t be that guy. (Same goes for women BTW: Don’t be that girl either.). Don’t become the subject of “Ewwww gross” stories for years.
Being confident doesn’t mean bugging someone who said no. Being confident means moving on because you know you will find the right one who will say yes.
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Bzzt, you were already in the friend zone.
If the girl wanted to be more than friends, she would have made it apparent.
It is only in romcoms where the guy is just a friend, then “wins the girl’s heart!”
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I mean ive heard people meet online but get out of the basement and get more options. Never limit yourself to someone on the net you may never meet. Sounds like shes not too interested that way in you anyway op.
Imagine how she felt thinking she found a friend with a common interest only to have it washed away with likely another '‘obligatory romance’ attempt. Not every platonic relationship is required to evolve into some r/niceguy story.
If you value this online friendship make like Frozen and let it go. Apologize if the situation and your reaction warrants one, but after that just let it go.
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How about you find someone who likes you back.
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This.
Nothing worse than when guy friends online try to turn it into something else. Imagine the sound of a balloon deflating. That’s pretty much how it feels.
Myself (can’t speak for everyone), I prefer irl not through a video game where I’m trying to escape my world and chill out.
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Go make a hashtag about it on fakebook, if you’re attention craving booty hasn’t already.
Dude your a 110 NE rogue of course she wasn’t interested. Roll a human paladin and get him to 120 and do M 15+ and then wait for her to confess to you!
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Women don’t care. Good luck.
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I’ve met a lot of people both on this game and off. Dated a lot too. If she isn’t reciprocating then don’t worry about it because it’s clearly not meant to be something long lasting or something worth investing in. You took a leap, you voiced your affections. If she’s not into it, then all you can do is respect it, and move on. Don’t bring it up again.
As far as you should be concerned, you did all that you could and it’ll be best to let her come to you if she plans on it. If not, don’t invest anything further and let her be. We’ve all taken a leap and been given a response that was “meh” and made it quite clear the other person didn’t feel the same. Eventually, you find someone who does feel the same and it’s a good feeling.
If someone like me can find someone and be happy, anyone can. You included. It just might not be with that person. When I asked my lady if she wanted to be something, it was at 4 AM and I told her: “So. You’ve kept me up for 2 weeks straight till four in the morning and officially obliterated up my sleep schedule. Wanna say screw it and give it a shot?” She laughed at me and said: “Sure.”
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Just carry her to Glad. Bam. You’ll be a hit with all the ladies.
Okay, I’ll be a bit serious. Do you know this person IRL? Have you been friends for a good while? It’s somewhat awkward to have an online-exclusive friend you’ve never met and then suddenly say you have feelings for them.
Anyway, worst thing you can do is try to force a relationship. If she’s more comfortable with being friends, that’s as far as it’s going.
I don’t have much advice other than to keep in mind that this is the internet; and people aren’t always as genuine about their real selves.
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That sucks dude. If she’s not interested in you in that way just drop it. Stay friends if you think it won’t be awkward. Life is too short to try to pursue anyone that isn’t just as interested in you. Don’t put out the effort.
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Thank you guys I truly appreciate it. I actually don’t feel bad anymore. I pretty much accepted whatever happens, happens. No point in dwelling on it and plus we’re still cool. Time to get back to the pathfinder 2 grind on the main. Again, thank you guys!
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