That’s what you call those things?
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You came in hours later dredging everything up in that one too! Right on que
You? Attempting to Gaslight someone? Doesn’t sound like something you would do Murg.
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And yet that’s where SOMEONE keeps trying to drag us
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You know, I do agree on somethings within both sides, but one thing I do not agree on is people accusing of one another doing something.
I know I have done it in this thread, and I was wrong to do it, but people shouldn’t be doing it.
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I get along fine with plenty of people who want high elves, since that’s just disagreement on one topic that really doesn’t mean anything in the broad view. And hell, I’m ok with getting called a jerk, I mean, fine I am versed in sarcasm, that can rub people the wrong way, and a jerk is just a jerk, just means that I ended up with someone who isn’t a fan, and can’t expect everyone to like you.
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Disagreements doesn’t mean we have to be jerks to each other, for sure.
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I try not to, I mean, I’d love to use the simpson bit of “Dig up, stupid!” to convey the idea that someone’s just digging themselves in deeper to something I feel is foolish, but don’t want to have people focus on the stupid part.
Just saying though that I’ll never be able to have everyone like me, and if someone thinks I’m a jerk, that’s not good, but I may or may not be able to change that, and it’s just the insult jerk. It’s like schoolyard stuff. But mainly it doesn’t have the baggage of attacks that involve mental illness, being an abuser in the worst sense of the word, or so on.
It’s funny how I’m willing to never bring it up again, but behavior I originally felt is being continued, on actually several people.
And yet here are examples of crowd mentality gaslighting per googling
Here are some examples of gaslighting :
- Lying and Exaggerating. …
- Repetitive Gaslighting Behavior. …
- Disputes are Escalated if Gaslighter is Challenged. …
Disputes escalated if challenged, so to prove me untrue you all continue to bully and personal attack / single me out? I originally said I felt bullied and you continue to single me out on it, now we have moved on to gaslighting and I stand by that. I also do not keep bringing it up, regardless of what you have going on in the back of your head for the most part if someone says let bygones be bygones, you accept it without escalating otherwise you’re not really doing anything. You think I don’t feel the same? I kept it to myself. Regardless I know who not to reply to.
And you can dispute this that and third all you want, I feel singled out and constantly attacked, so stop. Or don’t, but you all do you.
I’m here to support HE’s being included as a playable race, and any lore heavy arguments I see. 
Go back to your little troll convention in the love thread and keep the lies there please.
Also that is not gaslighting.
Gaslighting is a form of mental torture named after the movie of the same name. It involves a concerted effort to convince a person that the events they have lived through did not happen to the point that you make a person doubt their own experiences.
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You know man, I am not sure if you noticed, but one thing I have noticed is that sometimes you provoke others to attack you. It isn’t with what you post, but how you post.
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I noticed the same about you at times, and others. But someone cue in bold caps ENOUGH thanks.
Yeah, but thing is, I know what I am doing, and yes, I ask for it. I got a bit of a reputation for that at times on the forums. But the thing is, sometimes, it better to take a step back, and just enjoy the bit of chit-chat, like how sometimes, we all get into posting Futurama videos or just having a joke around.
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And the fights she picks are just about the topic being argued, not accusations of reprehensible behavior and full blown mental abuse. There’s a difference there.
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I felt what I felt and I stand by that, and all it got me was the same behavior I called out returned x 1000 and that speaks on all of you. You can be mad about if you want idc, if someone accuses me of bullying I don’t go creating echo chambers that all continue the behavior at the person to prove a point of? What exactly.
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Meh, it’s late, I’ve done my late meds, I’m going to get going before he goads me into reacting enough to get this thread shut down too.
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Wait before you go!
What movie is that?
Blazing Saddles.
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OMG thank you. I’ve seen that gif a million times and never managed to figure out what its from. I’m going to go see if I can watch that somewhere.