I get where you’re coming from. It’s just…I guess the phrasing. It makes it sound like the member of their respective faction is somehow at fault or unenlightened because they take umbrage to a member of the other faction being in their city. It’s not so much that things suddenly show up, it’s that there was never any reason to actually address them before.
Two orcs talking about if the rains are going to come this year for their crops, and one of them telling the other about how he was wrong about it last year, and him telling her that she needs to stop bring up old stuff, and her telling him that she didn’t mention his mother, and him telling her that that was getting tired, and her telling him so is his mother? That’s their own thing, and they aren’t even thinking about humans.
Until Johnny Defector pops in.
That’s the thing, I think. If you roleplay as one of the other species? You’re literally steering the conversation in that direction. It has nothing to do with being a bad roleplayer, or being wrong about something. That is something that happened because a player made a decision.
Let’s take that above thing. Orcs chatting. Human walks in, as in-character a human. They say something to him, also in character. Human says (Hey, I just want to do this scene). Fine. Let’s say that happens. Then a troll else walks in, sees a human in the bar. They ask why the humans in the bar. Human wants to do the scene. They find it interesting, ask to join. They do. Cool. But now the earlier orcs - who are ignoring the human - also have to ignore the troll who is not ignoring the human. Which is all well and good, except they know that troll. They have interacted with them. They plan to interact with him again. And they know have to either pretend that this human-troll interaction didn’t happen, or find some way to address it without also addressing the fact that they were in the tavern when it happened.
Now, the goblin bartender doesn’t care, since the human’s got gold. But if he says something to the orcs? The orcs now have to respond in such a manner that it also avoids mention of both the human and the troll, which also means if the bartender says something like “I can’t see you, you’re behind those two”, the orcs are like “what two”, because the bartender can see them, but the orcs can’t. Then, someone else comes in, sees the human and troll. Sees the bartender interacting, and assumes “Oh, okay, this human is in character, so I can react in character”. Responds like…oh, I don’t know, a Forsaken does. Is told that the human is only looking to play out a scene, which has now become a whole thing. The Forsaken was supposed to meet the troll, but now can’t actually talk to the troll because the troll is RPing with people who the Forsaken can’t RP with because they wouldn’t be able to actually act in character, so they also can’t acknowledge the troll talking to no one–
The situation builds on itself, especially if it’s something in a public venue. It begs the question “If you don’t want public interaction, why are you doing this in a public area?” It ends up forcing the public to deal with a situation.
Look. If you decide you’re roleplaying in public, then you have to accept that certain things come with that. In part because cities are also populated by NPCs. Saying this orc or this human is openly in this bar is also saying that these human/orc NPCs are okay with the member of the other faction in the bar. The guards are okay with them walking around.
I want to be clear here that I AM FINE WITH PEOPLE RPING AS OTHER THINGS. Orcs in Stormwind, Humans in Orgrimmar, anybody in the Exodar, that’s all good. But you have to accept that if you are doing this, you are the one that is going against the grain. And it doesn’t seem fair to both accept that you are doing something out of the ordinary and then blame other people for having a reaction to that.
I’m not saying that you are doing it in bad faith. But I would be lying if I said I haven’t seen people do that, recently, in bad faith. Mostly so they can jump up with “You’re being racist” because a dwarf or night elf isn’t okay with an orc or a troll in an Alliance city.
And, yeah. It’s…weird, with elves.