Think of it this way. Your people are in a bad way. They just got over a civil war, thousands of Shal’dorei are dead, the First Arcanist is now the leader of this rag tag group of survivors, resources are low, and you have to rebuild a city with said low resources. Obviously, you need help. Going it alone clearly didn’t work for the past, oh I don’t know, 10,000 years, so you would like to make friends, powerful friends at that with lots of resources for your war torn city.
Who would you logically go for? Or, another way to put it, who would you likely get help from?
The people who turned their noses up at you, went “UGH! Gross, magic users! I guess we’ll help you, but only because we HATE what you all made, and after that I guess we’ll see what Elune says to do, just know you’re absolute trash in our eyes”
Or…
The people that went through an extremely similar problem VERY RECENTLY, smiled and offered a hand with no string attached, and sympathized very heavily with your plight?
It really isn’t a matter of hurt feelings. It’s a matter of “Hmm, who should I go with, the jerks that look down on us or the people that see us as equals and understand what we are going through?”