No one is saying we are against you aoeing or cleaving as dps. The fact you do it before there is one sunder on anything is the problem. I play with my brother who aoes everything and has never ripped threat from me because he understands you cant aoe as soon as the tank pulls/charges. This is what we want you to get through you damage metered head.
Aoe is not faster when your tank has to chase everything around because you have to validate yourself through numbers.