got into a pretty bad pug group with 2 people and me and 2 other friends. we got to last boss and my friend who is the healer tells the tank to dodge the big tentacles as he keeps getting 1 shotted by them. my friend was pissed at this time i mean we probably wiped at least 10 times during the dungeon by now and on the last boss maybe another 10 times. next run my friend gets the tentacle and gets 1 shotted by it causing a wipe. tank tells him exactly what he told the tank. we were all just laughing at him it made him even more pissed.
whats weird about it is despite how many times we wiped i believe this was only a heroic maybe a mythic dungeon not too hard just mechanics were an issue and it was beginning of the expac so not as geared. we managed to down the content without anyone quitting or getting salty where it would affect the group.
it’s not like usual where people will argue, leave/vote kick. to me this is more mature and better especially for not so skilled players to learn and dip their toes into content they may not do because of how others may treat them.