No one’s trying to “hurt” VEs.
You’re against neutral options, we get it. Don’t paint someone not sharing your preferences as “hurting” anything.
I’m all for tentacly options for velves, will I use them if they ever become a thing? Probably not, I can simply opt out and keep my current neutral features, hooray.
Do I find the teeth growing out of peoples eyes and arms nonsensical? Absolutely. But if that’s what we got, I would still have the choice to opt out.
The only thing that’s “hurting” VE players is this desire certain people here have to take away this freedom based on their personal feelings.