Hey there, i’m having the same problem. I can help speak on this issue. Before I do I would like to say that I appreciate you helping us.
What’s occurring is that the tutorial is done, everything is chosen; the amenities are picked, the “events” or whatever they called are picked, and the RSVP is sent out. The problem occurs afterwards; during this, where the scenario isn’t showing up whatsoever.
Recently I transferred to the Horde after experiencing this on my Alliance alt. And, startlingly, it has followed me. I do not know why this is occurring and the GM’s have provided no answer – yet. I am still holding out hope.