Well i guess you have no interest in being correct then.
You know if you’re going to say you’re ending the conversation… i would expect you to … end the conversation, though instead, you just backtalk, making your word here pretty unreliable.
Because the way you said it there, it sounds more like you don’t have any arguments to back yourself up and looking for an easy way out. It just doesn’t seem genuine the way you’ve said it. As i said before… context is important.
You are literally determined to be correct in your own comments that you’re willing to not even discuss with me because you know you aren’t looking for a discussion. Like not even using one liners to explain yourself even. It’s like you’re the sort of preaching to the choir types (which is worse then people who argue) and expect people to only respond to you positivity.
The fact you’re now even backtalking shows how hypocritical you’re being.
Being able to have a discussion with you, isn’t an online persona.
You know, when i said this…
I thought it would come across as a joke, but considering your reply was just nothing, maybe it was too hard for you to explain.
Arguing isn’t hateful. I don’t know where any of you are going to seeing arguing as a negative connotation.
If you’re not here to discuss, why you’re on the forums even?
Meanwhile people here are thinking the same exact thing towards your comments and other people who think like you.
There’s a thing called “Toxic Positivity”, and you’re kind of engaging with it.
Okay Honeypot, i don’t think you get what he’s trying to say here.
He’s simply was saying that being hateful (and i don’t mean arguing, i mean like insults and general nastiness) towards those who are being hateful towards you, means you’re putting yourself at their level. You’re not being any better then the people who hate you when you do that.
True. While online people have no need to hide who they are or pretend to be someone they’re not. In essence forums etc bring out the worst in people but in this case it’s who they really are.
I’ve never really get the idea that the forums or the internet for that matter, just showcases “what they really are”, especially since the same can be applied to Real Life anyways. Whether the question of anonymous-ness is in or not. I mean we see this happening now and back then with people being bad in real life… (Not just political figures, but normal everyday people as well)
Honestly … I think this sort of thinking just comes from a belief of “all people must be bad inside and they are just hiding until the right time” just seems light paranoia at worst. No offense.
People are just neutral to me until i see evidence that suggests otherwise. This is subject to change all the time though. But i digress, it’s my two cents.
This is not even getting into the fact that some people are just either professionally offended by playing victim and will never accept your apology (like that’s being worst then the people who wronged you), people that are out to make you look bad while trying to make themselves look good or just silence any negative you have because you’re not being “positive” (or toxic positivity) or the fact that most people here seem to forget what that person did the next week unless it was very notable which EVEN THEN that doesn’t last long.
You may be, but not everyone is. If people are as hungry for conflict out in the world as they are here, that’s just awful. Fortunately in my sphere of influence, I don’t ever really come across people who are hostile in the grocery store.
Today I learned that the ignore feature also turns off notifications, which is a blessing.
However, this attitude of yours here, the “Oh everybody else isn’t polite!”… when you don’t even know them or just base all you know off of like two comments… If anything, that’s pretty rude and it kind of makes you look unreasonable tbh.
Again, you seem to be thinking arguing is the same was wanting to go and pick a fight. There’s a huge difference that you’re ignoring here and it says a lot about how you see discussions in general though with… naive outlook of thinking arguing is bad.
Arguing is simply explaining your reasoning for why you have these beliefs or ideas or opinions or why you’re correct. As i said before…
We all are.
But i don’t get why people seem to think it’s a bad thing to argue or need to conflate with wanting to have a fight… when it’s simply explaining their reasoning or why their idea is correct, and etc.
I find most forum people super nice. There is an occasional bad seed, and for the most part, if they try to engage me in senseless arguments, I just ignore them and more on.
To be fair I feel like real High Elf fans would be playing Blood Elves they’ve always been the playable HE race but I know what you mean I just wanted to add that lol
I mean, it’s their right to stay silent whenever they want to, it doesn’t mean their bad people by virtue of them being silent.
…Exactly how this is much better then people being hateful towards or bullying you?.. i mean is it just to feel good and never mind the implications this sort of thinking will lead or will come across to other people?.. Because by bullying the bullies, you’re pretty much validating their bullying. You say this, but i don’t think even you would ever want to do that considering you’re smart enough to understand that it never ends there and it will only invite more bullying as you said.
I’ve said this before and i’l say it again, hatred begets hatred. Inciting hatred against you, only gets you more hatred.
And as i also said, arguing, isn’t hatred. And context is everything.
Did I write that ppl are bad ppl if they stay silent?
Over all, I hear you and I agree a bit.
Idk. I grew up with so many rules and Christian mumbo jumbo brainwashing. I always fought the real me bc my personality is polar opposite of Christianity. Some wires may be crossed xD
Also, I just can’t stand to see mean bullies keep on keeping and ppl don’t speak up. I’m not afraid of them.
My sister in law drops her kids off all the time and goes and parties. She yells and calls her husband names sometimes when we’re at family gatherings. I finally sent her a text the other day of my true thoughts. She bullies and belittles my brother in law. I’m sick of ppls crap and seeing nice ppl (like my brother in law) shoved down by meanies.