You’re quoting 2 different people with polar opposite opinions on this subject, what are you even doing? You want so badly to be the victim in every scenario, but you’re not.
You cannot claim to not care what others think, but then spent days and days defending yourself to people who don’t even know who you are. If you truly think you are justified, what are you even trying to prove?
I have no idea what is with you and this victim complex, but it’s super weird. Tone it down. You’re so melodramatic about such a mundane conversation.
You inserted yourself into this thread and then acted offended when people had criticism. Not all criticism is an insult, you need to understand that. Stop crying wolf.
Not going to waste anymore time on you, but you need to get a grip, good lord man.