They never told me they were going to do anything.
So I’m not mocking you, but how does your mind come to this conclusion? Like what are the thought processes that being you to that point?
Because what I’m seeing is “I’d like a large number one with a cherry pie please. On second thought, no cherry pie. Sorry sir, when you ordered the cherry pie you made an agreement and now you HAVE TO HAVE the cherry pie”
Edit: I could maybe see if we had all summoned up and gotten into the dungeon and about to put the key in. But I was in the group for less than a minute and had just landed at the stone, being the first one there.
I’ve had blinks last longer than my “time lost” in this scenario.
I would say when they hit accept on your application to join the group they made the agreement with you.
Dont hit accept if you wont do it.
Thats my stance at least.
Would have helped if you had put this part in your post.
There is a bit of a difference between being accepted and then instantly told no but theyre sorry. And having been in the group long enough to actually make the trip there from like valdrakken.
I still dont think its great on their part, but a lot more understandable
Is it also rude to end a conversation with a complete stranger when the friend you’re waiting for shows up for lunch? Like you made an agreement to talk to until this stranger is done taking the second you decided to respond?
I’ve been removed a few times. I’ve joined a group said “Heya, at the stone in warmode” and…been removed. I’ve been sitting around in a group for awhile and…been removed. I mean, I don’t care. It’s your group. Maybe a duo signed up and you need to remove a DPS. No big deal.
Be nice to say something though.
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Not really the same situation at all
How do you even pronounce that weird word?
Free-nd? Fry-end? I’m at a loss.
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I did. Right here. How long does it take to fly from Valdrakken to RLP for example (happens to be the dungeon). Minimal time regardless. AFK time for most people
Funny how people are so far gone, they try and justify working around playing with psychos.
Thats not saying it was less than a minute.
For all i know from that it could have been that no one else was on their way immediately.
Its not at all saying it was under a minute.
But either way, i dont see your experience as something that shows good in the community.
You wont change my mind, i wont change yours.
See, now you’re backpedaling and adding stipulations. Who’s not to say they were killing time until their friend logged in? Same situation. A few other people even advocated to let me finish (heh dirty) before meeting up with friend since “an agreement was made”.
Sound it out with me: mutually-inclusive -like-minded-stranger 
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Not at all.
I just dont think its comparable. The two situations are just not alike.
That would make it worse.
But as i said, we just wont agree on this.
So someone bumping into you and knocking papers out of your hand and them apologizing and helping you pick them up = not good
It was an inconvenience. And whether it was a minute or less or five, I made the point of how trivial it was by my “long blink” comment.
The guy took the time to reach and apologize for his next actions ahead of time, an action very well justified in mind (yours too since you have no problems blowing off a stranger the second your friend arrives on scene)
Is it rude, yes, however, it’s their group, and their rules.
This is considered rude??
You’ve never played with strangers in your down time waiting for friends to be available? All of your WoW time has been 100% exclusively done with friends?? I’m impressed
Not even close because as i said, the two situations are not at all alike.
You may think they are, but as i have told you i do not, i would appreciate you not making claims that i think it was justification.
Any ways, ive had enough of this conversation.
You enter into an agreement in both scenarios. There’s your similarity. And you claimed it’s rude to break an agreement did you not?
If you invite someone, then change your mind, yes it is, because you made an offer, and are rescinding it.
Another way is to ask yourself, would I like this done to me?
If the offer is to complete the dungeon, the dungeon hasnt started yet.
Whats the offer in your mind at the point in question?