Hey there, I know how it is to feel like a certain realm is ‘home’. A lot of players who stuck wtih guilds etc. for a long while feel like that (I know I did).
But, if you’re still looking we have a group that sounds like it would suit you on Eredar. We’d be happy to help you level an alt to get a feel for the guild if you’d like.
This is our general blurb:
I know it can be overwhelming when you put up posts like this as far as discord ads. So, if you’d like feel free to add me on discord- Jae#1113 , if you’d like an invite to our guild discord or if you have any questions. 
Best of luck!