I suspect your 6 day suspension has less to do with your strategic choices and more to do with your methods of communication.
If you wanna turtle in AV that’s your choice, but I strongly advise against engaging with the masses while you do so.
This is a pretty misguided statement. I’m going to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they mean guarding your own team’s tower (ie, seemingly afk on one), but there are times when it’s beneficial to stall the enemy flipping that tower to give your team the advantage.
In spite of what everybody hopes, every game doesn’t follow the meta perfectly, and I’d rather put my team in a position to win.