You’re welcome to that opinion, certainly, but I stand by what I said.
The foundation for thinking that HR is ok is entitlement. The idea that someone brings something to the table that puts them above others and therefore are deserving of preferential treatment is the foundation of what has enabled you, and others, to think that this is ok behaviour. It’s not.
With regards to raid leading, as I’ve said, it’s not that hard, especially in MC. Feeling entitled just because you right-clicked 39 other names and selected invite, or loosely explained a boss fight that most people are expected to know anyway? It’s just not that much work. Anybody can do it, but there’s a lot of social anxiety built up in WoW and a community that has a lot of toxic players. So not everybody feels comfortable doing so and not everybody wants to deal with the nonsense. If you are, does that make you special because you’re a bit more extroverted, experienced, and/or patient than others? No, it doesn’t, and certainly not so special that you’re deserving of loot priority over them.
With regards to tanking and healing, why do they get special priority? Because they’re rare, so it better be worth your time to go on one run over another, you deserve to get compensated. If people want that same special treatment then they should just roll a tank or a healer, right? Hardly… the game is structured so that at end-game you need 1-2 tanks, 8-12 healers, and 26-31 DPS. That 40-man raid group does not divide cleanly into 5-man groups and so there’s a disconnect between the demands of a 5-man group and the demands of a 40-man raiding group. You’re a byproduct of the game’s design but there’s nothing special about you. You don’t deserve anything extra for playing those roles.
Let’s talk about tipping for opening boxes or portals, since you brought it up. You spent the time leveling lock picking, so you deserve the be compensated for your efforts, right? Except you probably got there opening boxes for free before you decided to start charging. You leveled a mage so you deserve tips for making portals or food/water for people, right? You’re clicking a button that activates an ability you learned at a trainer. Do it for your group, for your guild, or just some rando because it helps your fellow gamer out. Doing these things costs you nothing but a few seconds of your time.
This fixation the WoW community has developed with “compensation” is abhorrent. Things that we used to do for each other just to support our community now come with an expectation of compensation and yes, it absolutely is 100% scummy. Our time is absolutely precious to us all, but I think you folks forget that we’re already choosing to spend that time in a video game. If the game isn’t compelling enough for your to play without getting paid for it, then don’t play.
Just because I’m not in a guild with you doesn’t mean you’re not a part of my community. Blizzard is doing their best to blur what community means with their push to megaservers, which is maybe part of the problem. It’s not a good thing. I was brought up to treat people with respect and kindness, without the expectation of something in return. If I’m walking down the street and someone in front of me drops something, I’ll pick it up. I’ll hold the door for others. I’m friendly and say hi to people on the street. Could you imagine if I charged a tip for this? “Hey, I see you’re elderly and have dropped your bag. I’d be more than happy to help you pick it up, but first please tap your credit card here. I’m sure you’ll find my rates reasonable.”
Same goes for dungeon runs. If someone needs a tank or a healer, I’ll go. I don’t need to be compensated for it. I’m playing this game because I genuinely enjoy it. I’ve done these dungeons thousands of times but I still love it. Yea, I could take advantage of the opportunity and charge people, just because I can, but I don’t because it’s scumbag behaviour and I refuse to take advantage of others. If you want to do these things, go ahead. Nobody is stopping you. But don’t sit there and pretend that it’s anything other than what it is. This isn’t a job, it’s a game. Play it or don’t.
If you think that’s harsh, too bad. Be a better person.