Its actually a lot more fun for me when they don’t, tabbing around seeing what is still on me, whats pulled, whats dead and can wander off and die to ambient damage.
You are a tank, your job is to babysit if you don’t like it you should probably pick a different role or try some social engineering to consistently group with people you do like.
If you don’t want to work harder than a real tank, I probably would not play a nonstandard (imitation) one. Do you have 5/5 furor and improved enrage or did you go full feral?
It will probably feel better when you hit 40 and pickup a wolfshead helm so you can powershift abit… and if you are unwilling to go the extra mile, druid tanking is probably not for you. The quirk of druids in vanilla is they do need to play the itemisation meta-game of grabbing obscure pieces.
Barkskin + item then shift to bear (with furor thats instant rage too), this was also in reference to you not having aggro on anything.
So you are ignoring the part where I talked about doing damage when you have nothing to do? How about moonfiring up targets and helping the run go faster?
You can sit out of combat and drink the first 5-10 seconds of a pull to top up your mana come in drop a heal some dots, wrath… mana is a resource that should be used.
Powershift? enrage?
Above all though… its not all about you. I am a tank as well and I understand I can always improve.