You sound very similar to what we’re trying to do. It might be interesting to talk about working together.
My raid team is focused on getting AOTC, and eventually CE, but we’re not stressing it. We all know how to play our toons, we all understand that you have to move out of the bad stuff to keep your dps numbers up, and most of all we understand that if you can’t have fun while killing bosses and progressing what is the point of the game. Skilled players are always valued more than class with our team. We constantly run M+ in the off-hours and always help level alts, as well as have dedicated pvp/bg nights and casual Normal raid nights.
Feel free to check out our post if you’d like to learn more. [A] Companions (Proudmoore) LFM Mythic Raiders