Again with the projection.
Prove your claims.
But it’s clear you cannot.
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Youre the one making the accusation, burden of proof is on you, and you have none.
Now youre blocked, gg.
Took that long to get her info and then waited till a year elapsed with zero move on her. That’s your fault.
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Ok, thats fine, i can accept that.
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LOL
Claiming it wasn’t proven you’ve posted here with multiple alts in an attempt to pretend you have more support than you do, talking to yourself, is just funny. Anyone can see the proof in the links under your first post.
But this is not the same as approaching someone in a bar or supermarket or whatever. You are engaged in the same activity - in this case, a video game, but could be anything else (hiking club, yoga class, whatever). Sometimes people just want to socialize as part of that activity, without romantic undertones!
Also, no one seems to care what Jane might want. If she was more interested in playing in group with OP than with Steve, she would have done so.
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Just gonna chime in with something here;
while IP addresses are “public info” (albeit I don’t know if they are or aren’t so I’m just going to go with what Rog said), it’s still SUPER creepy to look up people’s IP addresses, let alone over a forum dispute.
If someone is being rude to you on the forums, the best action is to walk away. Looking up their IP address is borderline stalking and weird.
I’m also going to give feedback to op in another way; you misread feelings, put a lot of assumptions into a relationship, and should try to remain friends and not be so jealous if they do become a relationship. As you said, she’s her own person and can decide on things. If you can’t remain friends, politely bow out and thank them for their friendships.
That’s good to hear because I was genuinely worried for this “Jane” woman and how obsessive and creepy OP was about her.
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Just for the future, women, especially to men on the INTERNET, are a hot commodity and constantly have men competing for their attention and if you don’t move QUICK, you lose. I typically give men 2 weeks before I move on. Women want decisive men.
It’s also creepy to be hit on 24/7 when you are in discord, so just a heads up treat us as friends and communicate if you want feelings, and don’t take rejections so seriously. Jane, from what I can tell, just wanted a friendship and you put a LOT of weight into that.
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As a lesbian I can say that I do not hope to be in a relationship with someone I’ve had 5 seconds of conversation with at most and can just see what they look like. Don’t you want to like, get to know them a bit first? Talk to them and see what they’re like as a person before you start hoping to form a relationship with them?
Doesn’t that seem kinda weird to you?
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If only OP knew their request for advice would lead down this path.
Or did they 
Extremely.
I’ve never really been into long-distance relationships as it’s always squigged me out from what I’ve witnessed in a previous guild. The GM was super into mass-recruiting to just flirt with all the women who joined, I lasted about 10 minutes in the guild after I begrudgingly agreed to use Vent.
Dunno why people are obsessed with dating in WoW, I get it’s a shared interest but going outside and meeting people seems more… safe? I don’t know.
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a lot of people met in WoW are now married, just because you are all anti about it, doesn’t mean people who found love via WoW are some creeps committing mass heresy with people in their basements.
Just sound really close-minded
Not trying to, sorry. I get people find love on WoW, it’s neat that you can and a cool story. I just think it’s the obsession with doing it is what’s creepy to me, I guess.
So you never tried to get to know someone because you were attracted to them?
Yeah right. Sure buddy.
How can you really know if you’re attracted to someone in 5 seconds? Sure, you can think someone is nice looking, but attractiveness goes way deeper beyond looks.
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Get to know them better to see if I like them beyond my initial physical attraction? Sure. But that’s not at all what you said:
Need I remind you what you actually said?
Why are you already deciding on “the hopes of an eventual relationship” with someone when you have barely even ascertained if they’re a secret axe murderer yet?
I’m genuinely worried for your safety.
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first you said you’re a lesbian, so it kinda wouldn’t even apply to you nor make your opinion on it matter
If we’re being overly technical
Let me guess, you’ve definitely dated a woman who broke your heart/ruined your life (bonus points if it happened when you were a teenager), but you still maintain this crazy idea that when you see a hot woman, she is a potential girlfriend despite knowing basically nothing about her, and you see nothing with this way of thinking whatsoever.
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