I hear your point you have been actively farming it, but at the same time, they have also contributed to the group, while your suggestive comments establish ann ettiquete, I feel it would have been better to say at the start of the run, hey guy im here for this specifically please if it drops let me have it what do u say?
normally if I want to reserve a piece of loot like this ill pass on EVERYTHING else because lets face it u cant have your cake and eat it too that’s not really fair.
I also would have passed on it if I couldn’t equip it, infact if ever I actually need something I wait to see what the others do before I roll, just incase someone needs it more