Semi Click baity.
Sofor those of you that have been following my Fourm posts you know I’ve recently gotten into Mythic dungeon running (very late I know, but I did kinda come back like a month or so ago).
Anyway today I wanted to do a low lvl Mythic because why not, so I apply for a +2 Tol Dagor (+2 TD ) no biggy. I get declined.
Now before you trolls go rampant on the declined, that’s not what upsets me.
Now im a 448ilvl with some timed TDs under my belt (Found a guild that does Mythic Progression so im having a blast there!) So the following conversation goes as follows because I wanna know:
Me:“Hey why was I declined”
His: “Lol”
Me:"??"
His:“Why are you so upset”
Me:“Im not upset im asking a simple question, If there is an issue on my end how am I gonna know if I don’t ask, and if it is an issue on me then tell me so i can improve”
His:" Its not you, were holding a spot"
Me: “So you couldn’t just say “Hey were holding a spot”? Thank you for letting me know btw Gl to you guys”
This is my issue.
I get it, not everyone in WoW has the social skills necessary to hold a conversation with another human being, I get that not everyone has the basic common sense necessary to understand a question is a question, nothing more nothing less.
But your anxiety is not needed in a game or in a progression OR IN A PLUS 2 where you cant just say “oh hey were holding a spot”.
That’s my rant for the day.
Tl;dr When people ask you a question, just answer the damn question. Leave that anti social anxiety at the login screen.
Rant over. Have fun in the comments.
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it’s not toxic, it’s minmaxing. Be perfect or don’t bother.
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Didn’t even read the post lol. Lmao
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op I feel ya. I don’t pug much anymore. The simple fact is just find some friends and group with them. I have a blast doing it that way just get on discord and have at it.
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i’ve read title, it’s enough for me.
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On a 2 it fills up quick. If declined… What can you do?
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That’s what my main guild is doing. Lol Cattle prods and Time Warps.
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You got declined to a +2 (LOL) and suddenly the mythic community is toxic?
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Lol another one didn’t read the post.
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I don’t see why you’re upset. He probably was waiting on a person, but was willing to fill the spot given some amount of time of the person not showing.
If you list a group doesn’t mean you’re obligated to fill it asap.
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Jeez really people, read the post.
Noone’s upset.
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The way I read it when the phrase
“This is my issue.”
Is used, this indicates that poster has a problem.
This phrase is setting a tone to the rest of the post.
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If you actually read the entire post then you’d see my issue was that he didn’t ay “hey were holding a spot”
Instead he said “lol” like that was a valid answer, and it isn’t.
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I updated my post. I’m saying you set a tone that distorts your intent for the rest of what you wrote.
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it’s toxic to call people toxic
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Nah, your opinion means nothing at all. Show up on something worthwhile or don’t bother. Toxic brat.
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If there is some miscommunication or misunderstanding I’d more than happy be able to clear it up.
The entire OP was about the lack of communication, not the decline.
Hence the “semi click baity” at the start.
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When I start a group I already have a tank and a healer (my role) so just need DPS. Depending on the affixes and or dungeon, we usually have a specific comp that we are looking for. Typically there will 15 or more people applying in short order.
We then look at their relative experience, if their class fits our comp, and previous successes, then invite if it’s a fit. By the time we’ve filled the group there can be more than 10 people still applying. I don’t have the time nor desire to explain to all that ask on why they weren’t selected. At that point we’re summoning or starting a ready check.
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