Hi Tiaros,
I really think you and your wife would fit well with Bruhalla based on your post.
You had quite a response here, so I may be too late. But you are also always welcome to join our discord as a “friendly/ally.”
Here is the recruitment post for more info and contacts: [H][Thrall]Casual Progression raiding guild <Bruhalla> - #3 by Zaraelfork-tanaris
We are a raiding guild that also likes to do other things. Our progression raiding times are Tues & Thurs 9:30pm-12:30am EST
good luck!