Gone are the days when the game was shiny and new to everyone, and you were all working together to figure it out and master it.
Those days are gone forever. When your friends moved on, did you befriend the new players who came next, or did see them as people you had nothing in common with?
What you now know about the game means that that sense of community for survival will never return.
It’s not the fault of LFR. It’s not the fault of new players. It’s just part of the life cycle of the game.
I tried to do all of that and there were no guilds on my server recruiting at my available timeframes. I also failed at making the right type of friends that I could run actual content with.
Befriended new players for most of it. Granted I didn’t stray outside of raiding it was what I did back then. Ever since cata there hasn’t been that learning period for new players lfr crushed that.
Cata was the last batch of fresh players who were trained in dungeons to my knowledge barring a few outliners.
Then go to a server with one? This is getting more and more absurd. You are now saying that because when you snapped your fingers 24 players didn’t suddenly appear who raided at your times you were snubbed…
Server transferring never occured to me at the time. Had no idea my server was so bad. I assumed the game was like that all around and I didn’t have any connections elsewhere anyway.
To be fair, if I had known that was an option at the time, I would have gone for it. Literally all I wanted to be able to do was count on running dungeons and maybe step into some raiding.
What has to happen is to find a guild on another server first. Just paying to transfer before shopping for a new guild is not nearly as likely to be successful.
For instance, I know a lot of players on the forum who have been in a guild that raids the most popular time slot tell players with odd schedules that there are guilds for all hours. And since I read trade chat on the busiest servers and know there are never guild ads for raiding in most time slots, I know their information is either very out of date or never was true.
You see ads for evening raiding and a few for late night raiding. And that’s it.
Well yes. But we didn’t have discords or anything back in the day. If there was a way to scout out guilds on other servers that would even give me the time of day I wouldn’t have known it.