Hey Kyarel!
Reborn of Dalaran may be a decent fit for you. You mention a sporadic schedule–while our scheduled raids are Tues/Thurs 7:30-10:30 EST we tend to be very forgiving about attendance. I too understand the particular pain of working retail and how especially in the latter half of the year your life isn’t your own.
Our guild is very LGBTQIA+ friendly, as I am the raid leader and gay. We tolerate absolutely no harassment of any kind to people based on their orientation or gender identity. We strive to maintain a friendly atmosphere.
We are currently 2/11 Heroic and looking to swell our numbers in order to get AoTC before 9.2.5. We are also looking to have enough people to viably branch out into organized mythic and maybe in the future RBGs.
We also call ourselves a community, because we have a very well developed discord with people playing many different games, so our social aspect is particularly strong.
I added you on btag, and if you want you can read my novel about the guild here: [A] Reborn and [H] Calamitous Intent of Dalaran 11/11 H are recruiting M DPS and Flexers!
If I see you on btag I’ll hit you up though. 