Hello! I am not sure if you are willing to faction change or not, but if so my guild Evolved might be a good fit for you! We are an 18+ community and most of our members have families, jobs, etc so we understand the importance of real life coming first. Because of this, we do not require 100% raid attendance. We run 3 raid groups, so plenty of room for you! Everyone is super friendly, mature, and a ton of fun to be around. 
We raid Tues/Fri/Sat from 9-11 pm EST with an optional hour on Fri/Saturday. Evolved is an Alliance guild on the Proudmoore server.
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You can contact me at BNet Starlight200#1548 or Discord Star#0700 if you have more questions!
I wish you luck in the guild hunt! Finding the right group makes a huge difference!