That’s essentially the crux, is it not?
Most of the people here, or in groups you’re going to encounter, are doing content where the group is NOT going to fail. People are having 30+ deaths, or several wipes, and still timing +16’s or +17’s. You don’t have to make things sound more serious than they actually are.
I literally just got done with an Everbloom on an alt. +14, tank didn’t know what to do for several spots, we wiped either 2 or 3 times on the Council boss, had to run back and run across half the instance to get the last 10% count after last boss, etc., no one got douchey, and we still had like … 3 or more minutes left to spare. If stuff like this rustles your jimmies, the toxicity might be coming from inside the house.
Yep, definitely a you problem. This is an absolutely ridiculous standard to hold or expect for LFR.