There’s no moderation team that’s going to sit around 24/7 and waste time deciding what’s right and wrong for kicking. The amount of tickets and outrage they’d have to deal with would be astronomical.
The system doesn’t pick and choose. If the group doesn’t want you, then you’re gone. It’s that simple. Nothing needs fixed.
How about you know…not say anything and not get kicked? Simply knowing that your interpersonal skills are lacking and that you’re unlikely receive a positive response.
Ummm, mostly they’re the same. Hurting people’s feelings to justify your personality seeps into the group enjoyment. Sorry, but you’re not standing on the best leg to make this argument.
As a rule, I always vote “yes”. I don’t even read the reason. I vote yes to move the group along. Whoever is having Drama, if the kick doesn’t pass, the Drama won’t end, and the group stalls.