yeah sounds a lot like burnout to me. Instead of playing to relax and having fun you turned WoW into a second job with hard goals to meet and having to perform. Might be good to re-evaluate what you actually want from this game.
The “I have a real life” is just a lame excuse at this point. We all have real lives. We all have bills to pay and limited time. Some of us want to put in the effort to achieve some goals we stacked for ourselves and thats the important thing. If you just run after things because everybody else does it you ll just be unhappy and end where you are now.