Arguments happen, but at least with us, arguments rarely turn into fights. Clear and honest communication about what you really want is absolutely crucial.
Look at Anduin and Sylvanas. It’s like an episode of Moonlighting
Except one bubbles and the other turns into a banshee
My wife and I have been together for 15 years and I don’t remember any significant argument we’ve ever had
This really should be in the PVP forum section.
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Ma’am this is a Wendy’s.
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well you dont need fighting too have a healthy relationship, but its bound to happen to have a disagreement, tho to have a healthy relationship you most likely got to have patients and understanding with each other.
Is this because of all the fighting?
Hey Yoona, I hope this message finds you well. But here’s the thing, friend.
If you are coming to GD for relationship advice, your relationship is toast.
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kinda?
im not a qualified therapist, im just usually understanding in relationships.
than again i never fought when i was in one with someone, only had breakups because i was either too weird for em, or they just ended up breaking up on equal terms.
(there was a few different ones but not telling that stuff)
But can they come here if their relationship is with toast?
Well OBVIOUSLY!
#toastlove
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toast is a neat person, ngl
Just make sure mama is happy. Then everybody happy.
I’m gonna say fighting itself isn’t necessarily healthy, but it’s good to know if you can overcome the sort of differences and mistakes that lead to (minor - moderate) arguments. You don’t figure that out if it takes 15 months to have the first “fight” and it ends things. Not that it should be a goal to create a fight earlier for the sake of this.
Much like PVP.
It’s not WHY you fight, it’s HOW you fight.
Having disagreements is normal but if you guys are disrespecting each other in every confrontation then that’s NOT healthy.
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My folks seem to have the healthiest and happiest relationship i’ve ever seen and they swear up and down they’ve never had a spat. Both abrasive personalities too, so maybe it’s just a matter of keeping things in perspective
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Anger is healthy to expel, if expelled every once in a while in small doses a spat can be therapeutic, but large episodes of outbursts are as equally damaging as bottling up all that frustration…
Maybe they mean FFA PVP with your spouse in game?
People who say you have to fight in a relationship don’t know what they’re talking about.
It’s good to know how the other person you’re in a relationship reacts though. Are they willing to defend their principles, do they have boundaries?
That’s about all it’s good for in an argument sense, imo.
I think everyone should learn to fight physically. Martial arts is good for that.
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I think fights are more often than not a result of not having open communication and not mentioning things that bother you until you reach a breaking point. In that sense, I don’t think they’re strictly necessary.
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