I just want to take the game slow and help out others and learn boss mechs by playing them at my own pace while helping others out at the same. I don’t want to selfishly hit need on all the loot because I’ll be in loot timeout for the rest of the week.
That actually ruins it for me, regardless of design intentions. I’m not interested in being aggressively selfish and playing only for myself because helping others out would be a loss.
This is why I absolutely hate raid lockouts and why they ruin raiding for me.