Sadly it all comes off as whining however at the root of it is something deeper.
People want not to be messed with. They want to have faith that things will be permanent once they are done. They don’t want to be fooled, toyed with, manipulated or patronized.
Let’s face it the basic’s that the last generation took for granted in terms of common morality has become a thing of the past and really shouldn’t have.
Sadly the only way you can fight it is to not give them a inch.