I just had my heart broken

Aw.

You probably feel isolated af right now, and feel that you’re totally alone in what you’re going through, but believe me when I say we have all been there.

You will live. You will feel okay once again, i promise. Might take a little while, might seem totally unbelievable but trust me, you will move on. One day it just won’t hurt or invoke in you as strong a reaction. And you’ll go, “huh.” and move on with your day.

Right now, it’s okay to feel bad. You need to let yourself feel it. I don’t recommend drugs or alcohol or any unhealthy behavior to numb the pain. You need to go through this process.

Keep busy if possible. It won’t distract you or make you forget/move on. Only time, and your own internal coping strategies will do that. At least this way though, you’ll make use of the time you have in the in-between of now and when you’ll eventually feel differently about this.

And spend time with friends and family, if you can. And be kind to yourself as much as possible. When it hurts less to think about it, start going over the things you wish you could have done differently in your relationship. If you messed up, train yourself to be better for the next one. If you were wronged, think of the warning signs, and start making a list of what’s important to you in a person, in a relationship, your values and your dealbreakers.

Remember, this is all just a process, a wonderful one at that. It is a chance to get to learn about people, the human condition, to know yourself, to improve yourself. If you accept the invitation.

I know you won’t believe it, but you got this. I believe in you :slight_smile:

(edit - sorry, didn’t mean for this to be so long! Lmk if you have any questions)

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/gives you Bacon
/hugs you

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I think it did.

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Arent family and friends more appropriate for this situation?
That said sorry to hear it.

The sun will come out tomorrow - Annie

The sun’s gonna rise tomorrow - Citizen Cope

I love you. Want an e-hug? I don’t give those for free, for price of your broken heart you will receive one. :purple_heart: You’re the best.

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This forum no longer accepts the word Zug as zug zug hug on it’s own returns a error.

Anyhow cheer up Orc, here are some rocks.

I love this version so, so much.

Very soon after my heart was broken I found my wife who is the perfect person for me and totally out of my league.

True story.

Sometimes a bad thing has to happen so that there is space for the best thing to come along.

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sends fluffy Panda hugs
I’m sorry. I know how much that sucks.
Warm blankets, and tea/hot chocolate, and all your favorite foods. Be kind to yourself.
Oh and drink lots of water.

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https://youtu.be/PWlH8PTijzA

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https://youtu.be/ZZ5LpwO-An4

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Ah, don’t worry, after a while it doesn’t even hurt anymore.

Here ya go.

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Want a taco? :eyes: :taco:?

They can make you smile!

Or the ever-popular…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7I49oMXS_H0

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Feel for you man, listen something my parents always told me when sh*t hit the fan and I live by this, “ no matter how tough or hard your life is, there is someone worse off wishing they’d be you “.

In all honesty I’m currently being tested for cancer, trust me I’d switch with you in a heart beat then give all the stress I’m giving my parents, bro and sis. Sick of the Doctors, sick of doing blood tests, sick of doing scans.

But hey it’s all about being positive, we got WoW to take us through the tough times and good times.

It’s all about perspective, for every relationship that goes sour it’s just one step closer the the perfect one :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:.

Take it easy, relax, good times are ahead.

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It might not feel like it just right now, but it will get better. Not gonna lie, it’ll suck for a while. But with time and distance it will get better. A day at a time, then a week at a time, then month by month. You’ll begin to feel more and more like yourself again.

This first week will be the hardest. FI easy on yourself, and let time do the rest. You’ll be OK.

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HUGS

It’ll be ok!

Hey Bro you are in my Prayers.

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