Thanks for the reply. I’ve applied to some guilds in game that haven’t got back to me, but I may have to check elsewhere. I’ve done a handful of heroic bosses, but I finally got an entire normal run done only in hopes that it helps my raider io score. Not that any of the drops were any good to me. I can say I know the fights up to heroic now. I can say normal was much more smoother than LFR.
In the last few weeks I can honestly say there really isn’t as many welcoming pug groups as people like to say there are. I guess it helps them feel better to not have that responsibility, but it’s a bit of misinformation. I think the most frustrating part is actually knowing the fight, but because you don’t have AOTC, people assume you don’t know anything or are bad.
I have seen the people who join a group where I listed specifically to know the fight, that do not. And they just make it even harder for people without it to get it. My original post was after having made a group. We did kill a few bosses, then got a skip, but all the toxic bad attitudes and people just leaving the first time they get themselves killed didn’t help. Some of us tried, some stuck around till the end, even with the constant berating by those who have AOTC looking down on those of us who didn’t. It’s enough to make you loath those who wear it like a badge of honor, when they don’t carry themselves as anyone worthy of your time. I know it sounds dumb, but that’s the way of things. After 8 attempts at carapace I was too sleepy to carry on, so I passed lead to someone who immediately started making personal attacks on others. After apologizing for said thing, the remaining people dissolved and I went to bed.
It’s amazingly stressful especially when you already have social anxiety, so I might not filter out the bad people very well, but toxic people are shown the door immediately. Which is why I try to find an open group more often than making my own. I’m good at killing things and doing mechanics, but there’s other factors to success. I just don’t want to become one of the same people excluding others. But maybe I’m just weird. I try at least to help the “have nots”.
Still for has stressful as just trying to find a group is, I don’t feel compelled to jump into any “AOTC only” groups when I finally get it. I’ll join a guild for I’ll have more loyalty to those who even just gave me the chance to prove myself.
As a final note to anyone who read this wall, if you’re generally a quiet person like me, find a guild. Save yourself the stress. Of course, finding the right guild might be an entirely different thing lol.
Addendum
I’d like to add an addendum to my original post after being around for a bit, and finding more info about this and that. Still I worry about people who haven’t got their dragon yet.
Thankfully there’s the PerkyPugs community to help people get their dragon and AOTC. The icing on the cake is that after have it, you can totally undermine the AOTC requirements most groups put out there. No need to feel bad. You’re in that spot because of them, so anything to destroy the whole concept of “AOTC only” is a good thing imo.