I joined this guild as my first attempt at being social in this game. I had supremely awful anxiety and was trying to get over it so I could have some damned friends in WoW. I was on Rexxar at the time, in MoP. They needed a tank for some regular mythics and asked me if I could tank. I’m not typically a tank, I play feral and resto, so I told them I don’t know how to tank, and they said it would be fine, they’ll heal me. So we did a few mythic dungeons and I was in vent with these 4 men. I remember this scene so specifically because they were all joking around, and I wanted to joke too, so I said “I’m the best guardian ever haha,” and they all got quiet like they didn’t want to tell me I wasn’t good. I knew I wasn’t good, that was the joke. It bugs me to this day that they thought I was serious.
Anyway. It was during those dungeons that one guy said, “I’m going to marry you because I like your voice.” one guy cracked up. After we were done running, another guy came into my psts with this awkward “haha I hate men, we’re the worst, **** men am I right?” deal. It was… weird. It was around this time I was certain that I needed to find a new realm. I was in that guild until I switched to Proudmoore without saying bye.
I’ve been with him for 2 months now,he usually helps me with everything… hmm not flirting but I have said things like I missed you and I felt lonely…but you know its just because I want him to know I like playing with him…
All of that is true, but what I enjoy most is competition! I love to prove to myself that I can be one of those really good players. I play the game for fun, but my fun is being the best that no one ever was.
Look, I played really hard in Legion. That was my competitive stint. I had almost entirely Legendary parses. You can still check that out, if you want. I took a break for most of this crappy expansion; I’m still 10/12 M Ny’alotha, but we’re getting there. Good luck timing an 11 Siege, though.
You are either the world’s densest material or you are so used to fluttering those eyelashes to get your way that you honestly think that’s how women behave in normal life.
Or you’re <14.
After reading this entire thread I still can’t decide.
That does not sound flirty? I mean, it depends on how often you said it and what other things you said “like” it. So, yeah, he got insulted in front of some other guy after helping you and coming out of his shell for you and yet you are here making this about…you. I am guessing that you do not see the problem. Don’t worry, the forums crowd will point it out repeatedly.
The obvious solution, and I’m shocked it hasn’t been suggested yet, is that if you don’t want to play alone, then play with the guy you invited to join the run. You keep referring to him as your friend. Problem solved.
The only way this doesn’t solve your problem is if you miss having things handed to you on a platter.
That is absolutely fine. You are the only one paying for your account and you should play it how you want. I am telling you from my experience at various levels in this game that the crowd most worried about the highest rated clears tend to be self centered and have a significant lack of social skills. You really need to understand that the majority (I did not say vast majority) of males in this game will not want to marry you no matter how your voice sounds.
Look, on the off chance this isn’t some giant LULz topic I am going to give you some sage advice. Give it a couple of weeks and then make a sincere apology for being so mean spirited and let him know you enjoy his company and that you miss him, not just what he can do for you in game.
Oh, I see your point. Yeah! I’m sure casuals who play to chill are more like regular, sociable humans. I just don’t find it interesting to play that way, so it’s been tough to find a guild of decent humans lol. I’m close with my current guild.
You’re an LFR hero trying to judge someone closer to CE than you could ever imagine. Keep goin, dear.