Hello and welcome back!
OHD might be a good home for you. We raid Wed/ Thurs 9pm to 12am EST and we are 9/10H. We have a lot of similar aged players in our guild as well as a few former service members. In regards to what class to play, I’ll leave that up to you. In my opinion it might be easier to start off as DPS until you get the swing of things. Please check out the info below for more! I look forward to hearing from you Maellak!