Aye, they are just as wrong (if not moreso) than you. But they are hurting more than you are due to your ability to distance yourself more from the unfortunate damage, and I doubt my calling the people throwing the ‘troll’ title around are in any condition to understand their mistake and improve, whereas I think you are more than capable of it. On the odd chance that they can see a rational, reasoned discussion that brings up their pain points without causing more, perhaps they can be brought around.
As I said, I don’t think you are a troll. You’ve had measured responses throughout. But you did have some abrasive posts that you may not have realized were abrasive, and I thought it worth the time to point them out.
In all honestly, the fact that you want to sit down and talk rationally is the only reason to make a post and tag you in it. If you were a troll, it wouldn’t be worth the time.