Right. In essence we are coerced by honor/respect/courtesy or whatever to playing at least two different ways. Solo mode and group mode. Thankfully this is at least possible but it still sucks when that group mode version doesn’t reflect the “you” that you want it too.
It’s very similar to having work clothes and behavior versus non work lifestyle. Problem is, wow in groups isn’t supposed to be work. But that’s what it has become.