Hey Nellyel! I feel like our guild here is exactly what you described! As long as our raid times fit we could be the guild youre looking for!
Here is my guild post if you have any questions feel free to reach out on discord/battlenet. Good luck in your search, Merry Christmas!
https://us.forums.blizzard.com/en/wow/t/hbleeding-hollow-good-news-everyone-2-day-semi-hardcore-raid-team/786852