No. I don’t need to know because it is one of two scenarios, with the same intention --to get attention.
If you are female, you are allowing people to treat you in a way you don’t like. That’s on you.
More likely, you aren’t even female, just here to stir something up.
Either way, you get no sympathy vote. Sorry not sorry. People treat you the way you allow them to treat you. It isn’t a difficult thing to grasp for most people anyway.
Cancel WoW! It’s got dreaded Warlocks in it! Those vile fel beasts! They’ll be the ruin of us all I say! -shakes mallet angrily-
On a serious note if you are being harassed, my suggestion, is simply to not stay in those Discord and block everyone who messages you to harass you about “being a grill”. Discord would tell you the same thing. Not every guy is a jerk and not every lady is a c…a uhhhh…mean… Sometimes people just suck. Best to move on and live your life and let them…learn their own way or be foolish and not learn. Nothing you can do about them sadly.
And you are assuming that I allow it to continue? You are assuming it didn’t happen once with the person and I blocked him and it happened again? There will always be individual that immediately shut you down, calling you a troll, male in real life. I don’t know about your gender, I can’t imagine why would a male pretending to be female and seeking attention on a mmo forum, for what exactly? Maybe you know what it is.
Well, if you want the truth, the reason I feel your post is trollish is because of the extreme aspect of it, and the manner in which you provide the argument, not to mention subject matter.
What happens in your guild’s discord, or a friend’s discord, is completely irrelevant to the WoW forums, for example. It is a separate place with a separate batch of rules, which do not pertain to anything done here. Talking about it here to us does nothing to solve the issue either, and anyone who would do what you suggested certainly doesn’t view themsleves in that camp, nor would they do self-reflection and change for the better.
In other words, this thread doesn’t accomplish anything. It isn’t feedback for Blizzard, and it isn’t information which is useful to the general population. It’s pretty worthless, to be honest. The only thing this thread would actually do is make cynical folk like me go “Well, yeah. If it happened, whatever. Hopefully they get out of that situation”, or it’ll rile up the trolls into a frenzy over something that is, in the grand scheme of things, a non-issue.
You literally are not obliged to communicate with people who you find creepy, but you continued to do so enough to have them ‘want you to entertain them in private discords.’
Why?
This is why you are being called a troll.
ppl inv me to a discord and I thought it was for the run, turned out to be private chats that I didn’t ask for, I didn’t even talk and left the discord immediately.
Odd. Why make a thread over it then? You state it’s a one-off. Right? You had a run in, it was bad, and you left. So you, as any reasonable person would, chalk it up to a one-off, and don’t let it continue to bother you. Right? That’s the reasonable thing to do. Not make a thread with general statements and generalizing people, going so far as to make it seem like it’s a normal thing.
Phrasing, and the manner in which you frame something, is important.
“Alright. I’ll be real. I’m just venting. But I just had a horrible experience! Thankfully, I left quickly, but still. Eugh! I just had to tell someone.” <-- This would have gone much better than what you did.
The complaint was whispered to the tank and he told me days later, who would continue if creeps talking about you during the run, you must be that type of person that love to jump into conclusions, I wouldn’t want ppl like you around, no thanks.