I don’t think Midare or Naughtymoon are hateful. Passionate to be sure, and defensive over what they feel is a misappropriation of themes belonging to the Horde, but not hateful.
Midare, Naughtymoon, and I have differing viewpoints on the topic of Void Elf customization, but we’ve had very civil discussions and even found some common ground.
Ideally I’d like every debate I have with someone over differing viewpoints to be more like the discussions I’ve had with both of them.