Ok, so then:
If you discount even the possibility of personal growth, discount apologies given and accepted in the place something actually happened, and have decided it’s perfectly appropriate to just stay at it then what, other than scoring points, is your goal here?
Do you imagine that, somehow, you’ll sound some novel clarion call for real change - here? Do you imagine that people will come flocking to your rallying cry to never let anyone forget that once, a year ago, someone said something they apologized for and so now they should be ostracized, shunned, shamed…endlessly?
None of that’s going to happen, as should already be apparent. So tell me…tell us…what is it you see as the benefit of this path you’ve chosen?