Kaliendara:
My post highlighted some of the bad examples, and upon rereading can easily be construed to sound like tanking in pugs is a hellscape, and that’s not accurate. I have absolutely had groups that were good about errors, even when I was 100% the one that blew the timer, and there are chill people out there who accept that everyone makes mistakes.
I’m glad you added that story as a counterpoint, because it’s easy to let hindsight bias make it feel like groups are universally rude, and they’re not.
Indeed. The tank only spoke up one time the entire dungeon and it was the f- word after what he did, it was sad but hilarious at the same time. Live and learn