I make a group, but oops, one of my friends isn’t online so I list the group. 45 people sign up, I choose one based on my group comp and their run history.
someone I didn’t choose comes to the forums whining about how the mean elitist gatekept them and it’s not fair and why should they have to make a group they can’t do it because anxiety and it’s too much work and they can never get in groups because people gatekeep etc.
Wait did I find myself in one of those weird “culture war” threads again where all the reasonable people are yelled off stage by hyperbolic extremists?
“All gate keeping is bad” vs “There is no such thing”
Can you get the same rating starting from 0 last month in the season? Probably not, you will face gatekeeping, unless you make 100% your own groups and push.
Ahh there it is. The classic conservative argument that boils down to, "If I don’t personally experience this problem, nobody else does. "
It’s so easy and you can apply it to ANYTHING without having to do annoying things like use empathy or consider what it’s like to be in somebody else’s shoes.
Gatekeeping does exist, and in multiple forms. Excluding qualified players from content is one form, but saying things like “REAL fans don’t like ______!” is also a form of gatekeeping in various fandoms.
While it’s certainly POSSIBLE to progress that way, it is significantly harder because people get more and more picky the higher up you go.
This part is really just personal preference for the most part.
That never stopped gatekeeping,you know that by just forming a group,there always those that once they see your stats they drop or in a meet with two guildies kick you for fun.