I was in a guild in Cata-MoP where the guild leader and his wife were a fairly stable, okay duo. There was this other officer that got preferential treatment. He was used to getting everything he wanted from the guild leader. One day, he started badgering me in guild chat to arena with him. If anyone here has seen my posts on PvP before, you’ll know I loathe PvP with a very unhealthy amount of rage. I kept refusing but he wouldn’t let up.
Finally, my best friend flat out tells him no and to stop bothering me. Seconds later, they were removed from the guild. So I gquit on the spot.
Now, one thing you need to know is I was fairly well liked in the guild, and the top healer in our raid. When people saw me leave, I guess other issues with the guild leader started to surface, and his wife starts messaging me, begging me to come back because her husband “made a bad call, he was just frustrated.” I held my ground, the guild fell apart, and I learned later the guild leader and the dude bothering me for PvP were basically together and he divorced his wife for him.
So that was a fun spectacle.